Healing your trauma will save you tons of money in 5 major areas of your life.
1. Never-ending medical bills
Medical illnesses such as fibromyalgia and autoimmune diseases STILL have no medical explanation. Yet, we know that symptoms get worse with stress. There’s no such thing as unknown or unspecific reason for illness. It is TRAUMA.
When you have unresolved trauma stored in your nervous system and body, your system continues to detect and process dangerous and life-threatening signals inside your body. It doesn’t matter if you tell yourself that you’re safe and everything’s fine. Your survival system doesn’t UNDERSTAND words. It just continues to feel unsafe and under attack.
Those signals increase cortisol and weakens your immune system. Putting off your trauma healing is like choosing not to treat an infected tooth because it’ll eventually spread to the rest of your body and will either result in very expensive surgery or continue to kill other parts of your body. Unresolved trauma is no different – it WILL kill all the parts of your life if it stays untreated.
2. Weight gain
Many people with unresolved trauma hold on to extra layers of weight, especially in the mid-section area. They’ve tried EVERYTHING and spent tons of money on diets, shakes, mindset programs, and exercise regimens without being able to lose those last 10 pounds. If you’ve tried ALL the things and those last pounds aren’t going: It is TRAUMA.
Your primal body and nervous system see these extra pounds as a protective layer that would be life-threatening to shed. Depending on your trauma history, this serves to keep you hidden underneath to stay small and “safe” OR your survival system believes that you need to have the extra layer to protect yourself from danger.
If you want to finally lose the extra weight, you have to release your trauma.
3. Divorce
Your body is still holding onto old stories that it’s NOT SAFE to trust others or get too close to your partner. As a result, you are not emotionally or sexually available for a deep, lasting loving relationship. You may believe that it’s your partner who’s distant, but that is also a reflection of YOU. It’s not your partner’s fault and it’s not your fault. It is TRAUMA.
Until you heal your trauma, you will constantly be in cycles of struggle-and-fight vs. kiss-and-make up with your partner. This is a classic repetition of your past trauma playing out in your current relationship and you’ll bring it into EVERY relationship you’re in. Couples counseling is usually a waste of $ because talking doesn’t access the part of the brain that is holding onto old trauma.
Save yourself from the emotional and financial devastation of divorce and do the RIGHT work while you’re in THIS relationship.
4. Kids inherit your trauma
Whether you’re having raging fights with your partner or avoiding conflict altogether, it WILL hurt your kids. There is tons of data showing that trauma is inherited through DNA and that gets exacerbated when they see your trauma patterns playing out in your relationship. Your kids aren’t being intentionally oppositional, it is TRAUMA.
Trust me, I worked with children with ODD for 7 years and their parents’ relationship & home environment was the BIGGEST contributing factor in their negative behaviors. Heal your trauma and SAVE your kids from having to ever go through what you have.
5. Low income
Trauma teaches us to play small and not to trust ourselves. You need to be confident, visible, and step up in your power EVERY DAY to make a 6-figure income in your job or business. You are not incapable of achieving your career dreams and it’s complete BS that “you just don’t have it” while you watch other people thrive, it is TRAUMA.
You need to release your trauma and teach your body that it IS safe to be seen and powerful if you want to have a profitable career or business. If you try to fake it and push through, you may see some success, but you will eventually burn out and/or self-sabotage and it’ll cost you more money than you initially earned.
Now, here’s the thing. Healing your trauma is NOT hard. It’s only been hard because you’ve tried to talk your way through it with a therapist or you DIY’ed it. It is neurophysiologically impossible and painful to rewire your nervous system in those ways.
You CAN heal your trauma in a way that’s actually FUN and LASTS, in just 4 months. Please stop telling yourself lies that it’s not possible for you, because if you’re human, then you have the NEURAL CAPACITY TO REWIRE your nervous system for love, connection, and success.
If you want to understand the exact steps that YOU need to take to achieve this, please book a free and obligation-free relationship review with me and we’ll map it out together.
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